| Ways
to Prevent Child Abuse
Support activities
that raise awareness during April, National Child Abuse Prevention
Month. Contact a local agency for information on becoming involved.
Volunteer at
a local child abuse program. Parent support groups, crisis centers,
and hotlines are typical programs that often welcome volunteers.
Check your telephone directory for names of agencies in your area.
Learn to identify
possible offender behavior and approach those individuals about
your concerns.
Learn to identify
and report suspected abuse or neglect. Keeping children safe means
that each of us has an obligation to inform authorities if you have
a reasonable suspicion that children are being harmed. Your concern
may mean that children are protected from an abusive environment.
Advocate for
services to help families. Communities need comprehensive services
that address issues that affect families. Parenting programs, health
care, and housing needs are all important to maintaining healthy
children and families.
Speak up for
non-violent television programming for children. Let local television
stations and sponsors of network programs know that you consider
excessive violence inappropriate for impressionable young viewers.
Make a contribution
to a child abuse prevention organization. Your donations are put
to good use in much-needed community programs. Prevention services
are critical to preventing child abuse and to strengthening families.
Help a friend,
neighbor, or relative. Someone you know may be struggling with his
or her parenting responsibilities. Offer a sympathetic ear or a
helping hand. Assisting occasionally with child care of offering
to locate sources of community help can be a tremendous boost to
someone under stress.
Help yourself.
Recognize the signs that indicate outside help is needed. If you
feel overwhelmed, constantly sad, angry, and out of control, get
some help. Remember, it is a sign of strength, not weakness, to
ask for help.
Support and suggest
programs on child abuse prevention sponsored by local organizations.
Kiwanis Clubs, Exchange Clubs, PTAs, church groups, and women's
and men's clubs all offer excellent opportunities for raising public
awareness in the community.
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In
addition, several national organizations, including the National
Black Child Development Institute and the National Indian Child
Welfare Association, can assist communities in preventing child
maltreatment.
Promote programs in schools. Teaching children prevention strategies
can help to keep children safe from those who would perpetrate abuse
on them.
[source: "Ten Ways to Prevent Child Abuse in
Your Community", National Committee to Prevent Child Abuse]
Safety
Tips For Parents:
Know everything
you can about your children's activities and friends. Monitor children's
activities and participate with them. Don't allow children to play
alone in fields, on playgrounds, or in other dangerous or isolated
areas.
Teach your children
about strangers.
Teach your children
to refuse anything from strangers, including money, gifts, or rides.
Know where new items come from.
Teach your children
how to safely enter home alone. Teach them how to pretend you are
home and how to answer the phone if they are alone.
Teach your children
to keep a safe distance from strangers and not to give strangers
directions for help. Adults need to get help from other adults.
Do not let your
children go to public places, especially restrooms, alone. Develop
a family plan stressing where to meet if lost when you are away
from home. Do not have children meet you in the parking lot.
Do not place
your children's names on their clothing or on the outside of their
possessions.
Teach your children
to say "no" to touches on the parts of their bodies covered
by a swimming suit.
Teach your children
to say "no," to tell someone, and to get away if someone
bothers them.
Join with other
concerned parents to set up safety systems for your neighborhood.
Teach your children
which kinds of secrets are harmless and which ones are not. Assure
them that some "secrets" have to be told if children and
their parents are to be kept safe.
Assure your children
that they will not get in trouble for telling about a touch that
made them uncomfortable, even if the person who did it is a friend,
family member, or teacher.
[source: Adapted from "Safety Tips for Parents",
Texas Department of Protective and Regulatory Services] |